A relationship issue

I was currently in a short term relationship i don't even know if i would call it that. Me and this girl had been talking for months she was amazing, cute, nice, and funny i loved it, she was so into me. Only problem is she lived in Maryland and i live in NC, i didn't want to pursue a relationship that was long distance only because i have done them before and there is nothing but bad bad bad, to much extra bullshit. Anyways we was suppose to meet and we was gonna date once we met face to face, well once she got her check the ticket was to much money so that didnt happen. I decided we were going to meet anyways so i asked if she wanted to date and try to make it work.

One day everything changed, she told me ""Nick i have something to write on my blog and you're not going to like it but once i write it dont ask me about it" she never wrote it, so i ask what it was about and she insisted on not telling me. Well we argued and she stopped talking to me for the rest of the day, everyday after that she acted like she hated me, like she never wanted to talk at all, everything she said with an attitude. On her blog she wrote subliminal post and saying things like she never even wanted a boyfriend etc. As for me i had no idea what the hell was going on because she wouldn't let me know anything at all.

I talked to my best friend Angel about it, she tells me to dumb her, i talked to Angels girlfriend about it, she told me to dumb her too and said i don't deserve to be treated that way. Well me being me i wanted to play it out because i was really curious about was going on. Then i see my boy Rodney message her asking "why are you treating nick like shit?", now the funny thing is i never talked to Rodney or told him what was going on her just seen it thats when i knew i couldn't do it anymore. Not knowing what was going on was killing me plus my friends was noticing what she was doing before i had a chance to explain what was going on.

Our last conversation was a big argument but i mean its what ever im not pissed or sad or stressed because she left on such a bad term. I would post our conversations (the ones i have) so you all can read it but ima respect her by not doing that and by not saying her name. The thing is women need to get it together, i know guys are dogs but not all of them if you don't want to end up with a dumb ass nigga use your heads and stop taking out on the good ones because all you're doing is turning them into the ones you hate.